Showing posts with label effort. Show all posts
Showing posts with label effort. Show all posts

the things we do for our kids...

We had a lovely weekend that ended in me driving all the way to Great America to pick up someone's phone... Yes. I drove 3 hours round trip because someone I know went to Fright Fest with her friends and left her phone at the ice cream shop! Oh, the things we do for our kids. She needs the phone. I PAID for the phone, so yep. Road trip time! 

Saturday night, someone called us from my daughter's phone and my first reaction was that there had been an accident. Once I got over that shock, we learned she had left it. Then I got to stew all night about making the trek to pick it up. It's an easy drive, but not a lot of fun along the way. So I began the googling and texting. 

Only one person I know truly lives along the route and she didn't answer. I decided to hit the Gurnee Mills Mall after the phone retrieval for a store or two with lunch. Then hit a pumpkin patch or farm stand on the way back. That seemed like the best use of our time and our trip. Sunday I picked up my kid from her sleepover and we were off.

Two hours after I left my house, we had secured the phone. Then we hit the mall. I figured Burlington was the best route and I could have spent hours in there smelling candles, looking at the cute things, and just wasting time. Since I don't need anything and we had just shopped days before, I settled on some grown up looking super soft p.j.s. I figured if I had to spend a lazy Sunday driving around, I deserved something good.

We were lucky there was a food court right outside Burlington, so we ate and rolled out to start the trek home. There are tons of smaller farm stands and pumpkin patches on 1-73 that we never hit, so I stopped at one. We bought a pumpkin cream cheese turnover that was to die for! I love the little mom and pop shops. We try to spend there, too, instead of the larger places that get most of the revenue. 

We made it home safely and had a discussion about responsibilities, safety, and being aware of your surroundings. How many times have you changed plans for your kid? Or adjusted the menu to have kid friendly food? Or canceled because something wasn't kid friendly? We aren't THERE any more, but using a whole Sunday to track down a phone was definitely a life lesson for her and earned me "Best mom ever" award for the week. And I still wouldn't have it any other way.

when your kid wants to try new things, you go all in!

Both of my kids have always been very consistent in their habits, hobbies and beliefs. Not much seems to shock me any more. However... My kid came home last week and said she's making some changes. Just like that. Straight to the point. She had a plan and a back up plan already laid out. 

She wants to start a fresh path. She wants to try something new. She has new ideas. I love this! In the past, we have always mentioned camps, tryouts or activities that she always wrinkles her nose up to.

What does this mean? Summer camp! Or two! A trip to Target! Some choreographing of open gym times. New things are fun to think about and plan for.

I hope wherever this kid's plan takes her, she embraces it. I hope she thrives. I hope she makes new friends and memories. I am proud of her doing a reboot all on her own. We always encourage trying new things. 

Here's to having a high schooler. Here's to having a kid who can make her own plans. Here's to the future. Here's to growth, fun and adventure. Here's to my wallet, sanity and parenting to last and be the best! 🤣

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